We’ve already covered how people can be turned against genuine healthy connections by manipulative people in If It’s Broken Don’t Try To Fix It https://icucss.wordpress.com/2021/07/20/if-its-broken-dont-try-to-fix-it/
In this article we will be focusing the techniques a manipulator will use to sever and control genuine healthy connections between people.
A manipulative individual…
A slightly different post this time. Emphasising why it’s healthy to be around other individuals rather than self isolation. More specifically, why it’s healthy to be around the right individuals.
We look here at Bill’s story to understand this.
I had a very abusive childhood. …
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Certain people who feel empty and alone stay in empty and lonely places. What they get involved in, how they live and how they interact reflects how they are feeling within themselves.
- Are empty people afraid of filling their lives with good positive things?
- Do empty people go for other empty people because they’re afraid they can handle taking on something better than their current state?
In the post below we look at Dan and Peter’s stories to show how and why they were attracted to lonely and depressing places.
Case 16 — Those Who Are With Someone To Help Them Feel Protected
Those that are with someone to protect them from becoming emotional over those who they feel have rejected them.
Those that are with someone to prevent them from feeling vulnerable.
Those that are with someone to…
In some ways this is an anatomy of fear, but a fear of someone else. A fear of being harshly judged or punished by someone if they decide to be happy. Therefore, a fear of being happy in case they get punished for it. Here is Tom’s story:
This has been on my mind for some time, but it was a comment on this video that brought something to light. This concerns the Jonestown massacre. A man who was part of Jonestown claims that if he had been there he’d have been able to prevent it from happening…
Two teenage girls at a school. Let’s call them Girl A and Girl B.
Another girl (Girl G) finds Girl A and Girl B as individuals pleasant to interact with. Girl G notes they are not both the same or alike.
When Girl A and Girl B get…
Why do certain people, or groups, when they come together commit horrible crimes which wouldn’t have happened had they not come together? Or why do certain people go bad when they’re separated from certain individuals?
Two young girls at another school. Both are best friends. Let’s call them…
The Issues of People ‘Visually’ Remembering Others
The link below is a funny article; but although it is humorous it raises an important point about how people see others and why eye witness accounts aren’t always accurate.
Disregarding the daft ones, like the motorcycle helmet one, it’s clear that…